Also I have written about exactly ^^ this last year in a piece about biological living- what I witnessed as a high earner in NWM a decade ago so I totally hear you.
But for example, I have a friend who has a homeopathy empire (truly). She is the most soft, nurturing woman. Her husband tends the land, the physical labour, also a lot of their boys activities (biologically, boys need their dad around a lot more after the age of 6)…. He does the ‘hunting’ you speak of that is biological. When I witness them— they are very much in their biological roles.
I have also seen men who can financially provide but can’t provide any skills for protection or provision at home- eg. They have a white collar job, but if apocalypse happened, the wife would probably have more real life survival skills.
Whereas I think of my friends whose husbands work the land and build the home— yes her business is popping off, but he is very much the one who has the skills for the families survival.
This is what I mean by it’s not just the money . I share these observations as someone whose husband is absolutely the provider, and as a woman who had an 8 fig business too.
I have been very dogmatic in my thinking in this area… once I started having more conservative values and also studying formally the biologically diffs between men and women— but then I see real life examples of families who are absolutely thriving in their biological roles even if the woman’s business is earning…. And that evidence is what inspired me to write this piece.
Sure, it can be a total flop for some families. But it can be a total blessing too. Xxxx
Also I have written about exactly ^^ this last year in a piece about biological living- what I witnessed as a high earner in NWM a decade ago so I totally hear you.
But for example, I have a friend who has a homeopathy empire (truly). She is the most soft, nurturing woman. Her husband tends the land, the physical labour, also a lot of their boys activities (biologically, boys need their dad around a lot more after the age of 6)…. He does the ‘hunting’ you speak of that is biological. When I witness them— they are very much in their biological roles.
I have also seen men who can financially provide but can’t provide any skills for protection or provision at home- eg. They have a white collar job, but if apocalypse happened, the wife would probably have more real life survival skills.
Whereas I think of my friends whose husbands work the land and build the home— yes her business is popping off, but he is very much the one who has the skills for the families survival.
This is what I mean by it’s not just the money . I share these observations as someone whose husband is absolutely the provider, and as a woman who had an 8 fig business too.
I have been very dogmatic in my thinking in this area… once I started having more conservative values and also studying formally the biologically diffs between men and women— but then I see real life examples of families who are absolutely thriving in their biological roles even if the woman’s business is earning…. And that evidence is what inspired me to write this piece.
Sure, it can be a total flop for some families. But it can be a total blessing too. Xxxx