How good could it be, if your desires had no stories attached?
New flex: Listening to your authentic desire without telling a story about what it means.
This goes for everything.
How you run your business.
What you create.
Where and how you live.
How you move your body.
What and how you eat.
I don’t know if we realize how easy it is to create false stories of truth for ourselves based on other peoples’ expressions.
You follow someone you admire and respect and they express themselves eating ancestrally/juicing/keto. Next time your body wants a dinner of X… you now have extra stories to run your intuition by.
“But Lauren said my liver will be X if I eat this.”
“But Betty is so vital and she doesn’t eat this.”
“This has no protein.”
“I ate fish 3 x already this week so….”
You feel a deep, clear, honest, calm urge to move to a new part of the world.
You know from history that THIS kind of feeling is the real deal and can be trusted.
You know that THIS is your highest self speaking and she knows some shit.
But then…. Well, what about restrictions there? I hear house prices are crazy. I might not like the rainy season.
Can you listen to these logical suggestive questions without making them true?
You feel super clear on a new direction for your work.
The format is zippy, easy, and the price structure is so effortlessly prosperous.
You know that THIS kind of evidence is calling you into a sweeter experience in your art and the income you’ve been calling in. This IS the match to the energetic embodiment work you've been doing .
But then…. I haven’t seen anyone else do it like that. Melissa earns 8 figures and she’s never offered like this. It’s probably too easy. I don’t think I’ve earned this amount of deliciousness. Maybe I can implement this in 3 years.
You’re receiving the goods. You’re just not trusting yourself in the deliciousness.
Much like you weren’t trusted as a kid to eat dessert, without needing to eat something you didn’t want, first.
This is a big one.
(We’ll go there in House Of Heaven in a big way).
We know what we need to know about our most aligned way to do EVERYTHING.
The trust that we get to do it like that, is what needs repair.
What is YOUR body (or your highest self depending on who’s speaking) saying?
What are YOU making up about that truth?
To what degree can you TRUST what it’s saying?
It is safe for you to be totally honest here. To what degree can you trust what your body says to you? You don’t have to say ‘100%’. I’d be surprised if you did. The best part of Body Luxury, and why it is called Body Luxury is because it is the luxury of your life to be with what is true and say ‘this is ok.’
Do you feel that?
I care more that you can say it exactly how it is, than you pretend that it’s different.
This is how you illuminate.
This is how you will return to trust, by being honest with yourself about what is true now.
Your life force will rush open, your face will change.
“This is the truth about how I eat, how I live, what I’m afraid of. There are no secrets in my body.”
When you can do this EVEN if you are a successful divine feminine guide. EVEN if you are a successful 7 fig biz owner. EVEN if you are a super intuitive connected woman….
What would people think of me if they know I still obsessively over think my food? They’d think my work is fraudulent because I’m so intuitive in every other area!
These are the stories we make up.
These are the stories and falsehoods that keep us looping.
I say this to the women who are already deep into their journey. You know this little secret spot I’m talking about. You will liberate your life force and probably clear up your skin if you can be so lovingly honest about these little secret hidey holes… they are the treasure chests.
There is a place beyond the internal conflict. Where all is welcome, and all is free.
More importantly, there is a place in you where you are best friends with all the parts you’ve previously been in conflict with…. Including and especially THE LIFE YOU MOST AUTHENTICALLY DESIRE (including the way you most want to eat, the art you most want to make, the lifestyle you most want to live).
Somewhere, you’ve lost trust in the fact that you can trust yourself to want what you want.
Returning to this trust in yourself, your instincts, your most forbidden desires, this trust in your life— this is the golden nectar we will get to in House Of Heaven.
There are beautiful tender layers here. Some people genuinely feel they cannot hear their authentic desires because their bodies are overburdened, their systems overburdened and dysfunctioning. The philosophy of Body Luxury combines a RICH devotion to our bodily systems so that we can be operating from a body that we can truly hear. It’s not enough to just tell people to live and eat intuitively. For some but not all, the voice needs to be accessed and trusted again. This takes regeneration and devotion to the body. It also takes regular inquiry and a new conversation.
Kim, the woman you admire for her divine feminine work, doesn’t do pilates, she only believes in Shakti dance. It doesn’t mean anything about your divine femininity that you authentically love Pilates. Continue.
Melissa has an 8 figure business and she doesn’t do emails. It doesn’t mean anything about the success of your business that you authentically love writing to your community via email. Continue.
Bryony does Keto and her body is exactly how you most desire yours to look. It doesn’t mean anything about the fact that you don’t enjoy eating Keto, you LOVE how you eat and it definitely doesn’t mean that Keto is your only pathway to your most gorgeous, radiant body. Continue.
New flex:
Choose what you AUTHENTICALLY most desire.
Stop filling your life with things, projects, people and foods you only sorta, kinda want.
Your body, your being, your authentic desires aren’t dependent upon who else on Earth has similar ones.
There is no way of eating that EVERYONE should follow right now.
There is no way of doing business that EVERYONE should follow right now.
There is no way of movement that is right for EVERY body.
Evolution doesn’t work like that. Neither does life. We’re all accompanying each other’s expansion.
Social media gives us an opportunity to express our now truths and offer keys… but we’ve got to have a loving barrier between our own intuition, our authentic desires, our excitements, and what others are expressing as truths.
Sure, Kim doesn’t do Pilates because she said the divine feminine only wants to ecstatic dance to shakti playlists . You love Kim. She’s taught you lots about a jade egg. So, you stop doing the Pilates that you love. You made up a story that you were wrong and Kim was right. You start shakti dancing only and you like it for the first few days but after a week you start daydreaming about Pilates. It becomes a forbidden desire.
Same with food. Business styles. Lifestyles. Locations.
The things our bodies and beings authentically want the most, were never meant to be forbidden fruits. We made them that way.
So the forbidden fruits are now our clues, the yellow brick road home. And slowly we will eat the fruit that is ours and we’ll let it drip down our chin without a single story about what fructose means or the soil under the tree because we can now trust that if our body said YES to this fruit then, this YES came from the same intelligence that grows babies in our womb.
Note: This is only true if it’s a true and natural YES. Not if it’s an avoidant, compulsive yes.
The difference between the two requires our loving ears, consistently.
This is the conversation we will have.
We will explore the relationship between our trust in food, our trust in ourselves, our trust in business, our trust in God….
We can trust ourselves in this.
We can trust our life.
Body Luxury is not hacking or cheating the natural laws, it’s living them, as was originally intended for you, me and us.
House Of Heaven begins TOMORROW . It will change everything. X